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Qualify Wedding Inquiries Before the First Call

Every inquiry starts with the same handful of questions — date, budget, guest count, venue status — and answering them one DM at a time eats the hours that should go to actual planning.

Reflys captures those details upfront and keeps couples updated on timeline milestones without you chasing them down.

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Wedding Planner Automation: a customer question answered and confirmed in a Reflys chat

Where wedding
inquiries pile up

  1. The same handful of intake questions — date, budget, guest count, venue — get typed out manually for every new inquiry

  2. Vendor confirmations for florists, caterers, and photographers get tracked across scattered text threads

  3. Timeline milestones — save-the-dates, final headcount, payment due dates — slip because they live in someone's memory, not a schedule

  4. Client and vendor details live in a separate planning system, disconnected from wherever the actual conversation with the couple happens

  5. “Are you available on our date?” gets asked dozens of times a month before a single contract's signed

  6. Day-of coordination messages to vendors get sent one at a time under real time pressure

From First Inquiry to Day-Of Coordination

Wedding Planner Automation workflow: inquiry captured, request handled, and details synced by Reflys
  1. Inquiry Qualification

    Date, budget, and guest-count questions are answered upfront, before the first call.

  2. Timeline Milestone Reminders

    Each couple gets reminders on their own schedule, not a generic countdown.

  3. Vendor Broadcast Updates

    Day-of instructions and confirmations reach every vendor in one message instead of ten.

  4. CRM Integration

    Connects to your CRM or planning tool via API or webhook, configured directly into your automations — reads each client's details and writes timeline updates back in parallel, no double entry.

Where Wedding Conversations Happen

Instagram DM-led — most wedding and social-event inquiries start from a portfolio post or a saved reel, so that's where the first message lands. WhatsApp takes over once a couple's booked, for vendor coordination and timeline reminders that need a proper thread.

Instagram

Qualify Couples Where They Find You

Instagram DM captures date, budget, guest count, and venue status from couples who found you through a portfolio post or saved reel.

Best for:

  • Inquiry qualification
  • Date availability
WhatsApp

Run Every Booked Wedding in One Thread

WhatsApp handles timeline reminders and day-of vendor coordination once a couple's booked.

Best for:

  • Timeline reminders
  • Vendor coordination

Wedding Planner Lead Management Software That Qualifies Before the First Call

Every wedding inquiry begins with the same four facts: the date, the guest count, the budget and whether a venue is booked. Typing those questions into a DM for each couple takes hours that should go to planning. Wedding planner lead management software collects them up front, so your discovery call starts with a couple you can help.

How it works

  1. Collect the basics before you speak

    Wedding inquiry qualification asks for the wedding date, guest count, budget range and venue status in chat. You learn whether you are available and a fit before a call is scheduled.

  2. Remind each couple on their own schedule

    Wedding planning timeline reminders follow every couple's dates for save-the-dates, final headcount and payment due dates, not a generic countdown.

  3. Reach every vendor at once

    Wedding vendor communication goes out as a single broadcast, so day-of coordination does not mean ten separate texts under pressure.

  4. Connect your planning tool

    By API or webhook, Reflys reads client and vendor details from your CRM or planning system and writes updates back.

In practice

Picture a couple who save one of your portfolio posts and message on a Sunday asking if you are free next October. They answer four short questions and learn you have the date. On Tuesday's call you already know it is 140 guests at a booked vineyard, so the conversation is about their ideas. Eight months later, their final headcount reminder arrives without you sending it.

Practical tips

  • Keep the tone of the intake warm and brief. Congratulate them first, then ask. Couples forgive four questions and resent a form.

  • Tell couples honestly when a date or budget is not a fit and suggest someone else. The referral comes back, and your calendar stays clear for booked couples.

  • Send day-of vendor messages with one instruction each and a time. The florist and caterer are reading on a loading dock, not at a desk.

Frequently Asked Questions

Questions? We've got answers.

Everything you need to know about Reflys, automations, integrations, and getting started.

The automation handles the repetitive intake questions — date, budget, guest count — so the planner's first real conversation with a couple is about the wedding itself, not logistics.

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